Sometimes you need to lose your self in order to find your SELF.
Author: ducitamore
Having Disappointment over for a cup of Tea
Giving emotions air space is one of my favourite past times. I know for sure when they get stuck inside of me, it is NOT a good thing. Also, when they take up too much space that is also not a great thing. Two weekends ago, my lovely love of my life triggered some big disappointment. […]
Regret and The Yardstick
I have been fascinated for some time in the unpacking of our not so pleasant emotions. Getting our issues out of our tissues so to speak. One of my tag lines is that our emotional unpacking can lead to our souls unfolding. This has been my experience. For sure. Without getting into the nitty gritty. I have some […]
Frustration. A personal story
I have always considered myself pretty comfortable expressing my emotions. I cry when I am sad, I laugh hard when I am happy, and I am comfortable sharing my anger when it feels appropriate.I even have as one of my tag lines..emotional unpacking allows for our souls unfolding. My son was sharing a story recently about feeling the […]
Just one more thing….
Just one more thing and then I’ll rest,I’ll stop putting myself to the test,Needing always to be the best,On the constant spiritual quest,Riding the wave upon the crest,Showing up so damn well dressed But hey-this life’s not a contest,Aiming for higher-a bigger conquest.Though that has become a habit,I can attest I just got off the […]
Choosing to change
We can find new REASONS to change old patterns Or We can use old EXCUSES to remain stuck in our old habits. You choose.
Success
Allowing the world to determine our successCauses an enormous amount of stressAnd creates corresponding duress. This is an issue for us all to address I have bought into this messI most humbly confessThis pattern will surely continue unlessWe collectively expressOur dissatisfaction with material successAnd our illusion of rapid progress. We believe what’s printed in the press,Our image on […]
I drank the Kool Aid
I drank the Kool Aid. I believed the demonstrations and the parade. I wanted equality and all it portrayed. We’ve lost ourselves in this grand masquerade, Being mother, wife, daughter, doctor and maid. We shout from the rooftops “We’ve made it”! But, we’ve been played… We bought into a system and all it conveyed, Ignorant of […]
Choosing YOU
Choosing YOU Is what you need to do. While listening to other points of view, Opposing opinions may spew and askew. You may simply respond with a kind “thank you,” Or perhaps a curt “adieu.” They have their own agenda Their own world view That they hope you will live up to. It’s not your […]
You are not flawed & It’s not your fault
When I owned my store leka, women would come in and try on clothing all day long. When something did not fit-for any reason-there was always a common thread in their responses (pun intended). Often the first thing to come out of a woman’s mouth was that something was wrong with her because the item […]
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