Be interesting More importantly, Be interested. Through your curiosity you will learn and contribute the most. Now that is interesting.
Author: ducitamore
Beauty
Beauty catches the eye captivates the heart captures the soul. We are all beautiful.
Stoic vs Strong
stoic benefits others … at the cost of your own well-being you over do. You. Strong includes you in the equation. Your actions benefit others as well as your self. Your doing does not sacrifice your being.
Re-thinking Over Compensating.
Overcompensating leaves you out of the equation. There is no compensation for you. You did more than your fair share. You did not share the burden. You took it on. Took it in. Took it OVER. Pensate is the Italian imperative of think. Com means together or in association. Think of yourself and others before […]
Vulnerability and the sun. Sunscreen and SOUL screen.
Vulnerability is like the sun. It is a good thing. And too much …is well too much. Just as we can get sun burned, we can also get vulnerability burned. Let me explain. I am all for being open. Honest. Clear and truthful. I share my caring without even trying. I have always believed in the […]
Being formed, informed, reformed or deformed by our emotions
We get to choose. Always. Do we listen? Or ignore? When we listen, our emotions can form, inform and even reform us! When we don’t …..they deform us! Remember, choose wisely.
Attention, intention and tension
Attention and intention are the antidotes to tension. Intend to pay attention. It will dissipate your tension!
Looking at, Looking for and Seeing
Looking at is surface level seeing. It involves the head only. You are satisfied with a surface level interpretation. Looking for is a driven looking. Using your eyes only in an arrow like focus to find what you think you are looking for. It involves, expectation, and inherently disappointment. Seeing is open eyed and open […]
This is the world I want to live in
I want to live in a world where we share the carrying of our caring. I want to live in a world where we can be as much as we do. I want to live in a world where instead of taking something on, we take it in, exhale it with more love than when […]
Looking at vs Seeing
Looking at is superficial seeing Seeing is SOUL-FULL looking.
Ducit Amore 