taking in taking on and taking over these are all hostile take overs taking what is not yours from someone else in the name of service in the name of assistance we get to feel important, needed, relevant we become the fixer what is the opposite? partaking and participating shared taking each person doing their […]
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Calling vs a Drive
A calling vs a drive A calling is a response to an invitation Soul FULL A drive is a reaction to a pre determined goal Ego driven
Taking Care vs Caring For
taking care vs caring for taking care means taking care away from someone else unkind, selfish, and self serving caring for means giving care generous, kind, and mutually beneficial
Be interested
Be interesting More importantly, Be interested. Through your curiosity you will learn and contribute the most. Now that is interesting.
Beauty
Beauty catches the eye captivates the heart captures the soul. We are all beautiful.
Stoic vs Strong
stoic benefits others … at the cost of your own well-being you over do. You. Strong includes you in the equation. Your actions benefit others as well as your self. Your doing does not sacrifice your being.
Re-thinking Over Compensating.
Overcompensating leaves you out of the equation. There is no compensation for you. You did more than your fair share. You did not share the burden. You took it on. Took it in. Took it OVER. Pensate is the Italian imperative of think. Com means together or in association. Think of yourself and others before […]
Vulnerability and the sun. Sunscreen and SOUL screen.
Vulnerability is like the sun. It is a good thing. And too much …is well too much. Just as we can get sun burned, we can also get vulnerability burned. Let me explain. I am all for being open. Honest. Clear and truthful. I share my caring without even trying. I have always believed in the […]
Being formed, informed, reformed or deformed by our emotions
We get to choose. Always. Do we listen? Or ignore? When we listen, our emotions can form, inform and even reform us! When we don’t …..they deform us! Remember, choose wisely.
Attention, intention and tension
Attention and intention are the antidotes to tension. Intend to pay attention. It will dissipate your tension!