TO LEAD WITH LOVE
Overcompensating leaves you out of the equation. There is no compensation for you. You did more than your fair share. You did not share the burden. You took it on. Took it in. Took it OVER. Pensate is the Italian imperative of think. Com means together or in association. Think of yourself and others before […]
Vulnerability is like the sun. It is a good thing. And too much …is well too much. Just as we can get sun burned, we can also get vulnerability burned. Let me explain. I am all for being open. Honest. Clear and truthful. I share my caring without even trying. I have always believed in the […]
We get to choose. Always. Do we listen? Or ignore? When we listen, our emotions can form, inform and even reform us! When we don’t …..they deform us! Remember, choose wisely.
Attention and intention are the antidotes to tension. Intend to pay attention. It will dissipate your tension!
Looking at is surface level seeing. It involves the head only. You are satisfied with a surface level interpretation. Looking for is a driven looking. Using your eyes only in an arrow like focus to find what you think you are looking for. It involves, expectation, and inherently disappointment. Seeing is open eyed and open […]
I want to live in a world where we share the carrying of our caring. I want to live in a world where we can be as much as we do. I want to live in a world where instead of taking something on, we take it in, exhale it with more love than when […]
Looking at is superficial seeing Seeing is SOUL-FULL looking.
I need to do it alone. This BS mantra I bemoan. I often work myself to the bone. Creating havoc with every hormone. Thyroid, pineal, and progesterone. Rapidly aging into a premature crone. Solo I have travelled far and flown. Until this year I had never known that a woman middle aged, nearly full-grown could […]
What do we do with so much shame? Always thinking that we are to blame, Our faults we list, too many to name. We forget our beauty, and call ourselves lame… Our minds too scattered to tame. Our spirits and souls we repeatedly maim. Trying to extinguish our exquisite flame. We need a new beginning. […]
Moderation is not a bad word Maybe you haven’t heard The happy medium is not so absurd Having more is often preferred It simply means that our payments are deferred Having less means being less…. this is automatically inferred! The line between reality and fiction is often blurred Better to get first and collapse, than […]
Ducit Amore 