TO LEAD WITH LOVE
Deliberate has within it the word liberate. It is freeing. Light. Full of possibilities. Creating freedom, not constriction. Sharpens our thinking. Perseverate has the word sever in it. It is severe in its tone. To divide into parts. Forcibly. It separates us from possibilities. Constricts our thinking.
I was walking with my man one evening a few months ago. I had this realization that I was settling into my self as I had never yet done. I told him that it felt like settling into a comfortable armchair. This was a new experience. I have spent my life sitting at the front […]
Enjoy! Live… IN joy
Esigere Amore means “to choose love” in Latin. It is always a choice!
Eligere means “to choose” in Latin. For me, the word evokes a lightness, a freedom, giving a new meaning to “freedom of choice.”
Do not look to others for permission to live out the unique mission of YOUR life!
What is the point of martyrdom? Why settle for just a crumb, When you own the entire queendom? You deserve the full income Not simply a sparse sum Why are we to succumb to having less because we are a mum? We provide for those around us, a place to grow, flourish, become, ensuring for […]
How many times a day do we silently— or not so silently— think to ourselves, “If only I had…” “If only I could…” “If only I could be more like her, like him, like them,” Anyone but ourselves. Such self-condemnation. Imagine saying this to your best friend. Or your child. “Why don’t you have more […]
Funny changes are happening. I was raised on “do more, try harder, and strive for the best.” This ethic landed me in my health crisis. Push… against whatever is in your way. Be stoic. Do not admit to being tired, exhausted, depleted. Keep a stiff upper lip. Do more. Sleep less. Success came from sacrifice, […]
Why do we stay attached to behaviours that are not good for us? We get some form of payoff. It might not be visible or tangible. Some payoffs are invisible and / or intangible. But there is always a payoff. We work too hard so that someone will say.. “Oh… you are working too hard. […]
Ducit Amore 